Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Life Is Changing

The love my husband and I share for each other has grown stronger each and every day.
As we lie in bed in the mornings, talking softly, sweet kisses, speaking of nothing but I love you.
As we lie in bed at night, the final continued embrace before drifting off.
The touch of skin as our naked bodies become one.
The intensity of our lovemaking in the past months has been explosive.
We can't seem to get enough of each other.


We strive to work harder at our communication.
23 years of marriage is no easy task.
We are proud of our accomplishment.
Now we have added a secondary relationship into the mix.
His work is cut out for him.
His choice for a secondary was not the wise one, but the easy one.
And I understand, and I give freely because I want him to have this first experience.

As he moves on to other relationships in the future, he will realize that it will get easier.
Communication will flow as we learn.
His choice in his next relationship will be wiser.
He will realize the secondary relationship need not be so time consuming or dramatic.
It should be fun.
It should be exciting.
It should be easy.
For both of us.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

A Virus

A small, insignificant entity that on it's own, causes no disease, no stress, no problems to human existence.

The virus, when introduced into a hospitable environment,  will disguise itself as a friendly element that the host does not see as a threat.  With no threat, the host puts up no barriers, does not try to defend itself, and does not recognize the infection, until it's too late.

Once detected, there are ways to eraticate some viruses.  Strong systems of immunity, strength, and outside elements can sometimes help. Other viruses, unfortunately have painful side affects, cause deterioration, and in the most extreme circumstances, death.


The question is, how dangerous is the virus.